Whenever I am clotheslined by the enemies airing of my dirty laundry, I can go one of two ways:

1. fall into the old mud hole of guilt and anxiety, or
2. agree with him with this disclaimer:
It is true what you say about me, HOWEVER... God's word has something to add:

"And when you were dead in your sin, and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He made you alive together with Him, having forgiven us all our sin, having canceled out the certificate of debt consisting of decrees against us and which was hostile to us, and He has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross". Colossians 2: 13 & 14

Don't let anyone judge what He has justified.